Cheaters IRL Podcast

This podcast discusses cheating. It follows 6 true stories of cheating experiences that all have different fact scenarios and outcomes. It addresses the commonalities in people's experiences with cheating, as well as misconceptions about cheating, red flags to spot cheating and even some of the legal implications of cheating.
This podcast is created and produced by an experienced family law attorney.
Each episode has 2 parts that can both function as standalone episodes themselves but are in two parts for a reason. This is to make listening and navigating the episodes easier. Part 1 of each episode are the discussion portions of the episodes. Discussions regarding relationships, the commonalities in cheating experiences, misconceptions and red flags to spot cheating, as well as legal implications. Part 2 of each episode takes us through the 6 couples true (raw) stories of cheating where you will see the items discussed in Part 1 in real life scenarios.
Questions such as the following will be addressed through-out the podcast:
How to spot cheating
What to do if you are being cheated on
Why was I cheated on
Why did I cheat
What are the potential outcomes and impacts of cheating
How do I trust anyone after I've been cheated on
How can I handle interacting with my spouse after divorce, due to cheating, for our kid's sakes
What are the long-term consequences of staying or leaving after cheating happens
And more.

Episodes

Nov 25, 2025

41 min

Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior

Nov 25, 2025

41 min

Nov 20, 2025

19 min

Episode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating

Nov 20, 2025

19 min

Nov 19, 2025

31 min

Episode 10 Part 1:  
Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating.
Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels surprised by how much anger they feel toward the person their cheating spouse cheated with. They often feel more hurt than expected, are surprised at feeling relief at discovering they were right about their spouse cheating, and feel a roller coaster of emotions.
Common Apps used for Cheating. There a lot of apps commonly used for cheating. Some of these are specifically designed for cheating, others are common apps whose functionality has been taken advantage of by cheaters. We discuss the most common ones that cheaters currently use and why.

Nov 19, 2025

31 min

Nov 12, 2025

45 min

Episode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating

Nov 12, 2025

45 min

Nov 11, 2025

19 min

Episode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags
 
Support Systems are critical for physical, mental and emotional health
Vehicles can often contain a lot of evidence of cheating, as they are common hiding places for cheaters
Work is one of the most common claims to conceal cheating incidents

Nov 11, 2025

19 min

Nov 8, 2025

53 min

Episode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating

Nov 8, 2025

53 min

Nov 5, 2025

28 min

Episode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse
Rumors, No Smoke without Fire
The impact of rumors of cheating on relationships
Why do cheaters confess their cheating to others
Why do Cheaters' Cheating Partners Confess to the Cheated-On Spouse
The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated On Spouse's Feelings of self-worth

Nov 5, 2025

28 min

Oct 31, 2025

48 min

Episode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise

Oct 31, 2025

48 min

Oct 28, 2025

28 min

Episode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex Life
 
It is often difficult for people to realize they are being emotionally abused
Emotional abusers often don't realize that their behavior is abusive
Emotional abusers are often self-centric
Types of evidence of cheating, four main categories (claims of others, confessions, physical and witnessing it)
The impact of cheating on partners' sexual relationship with each other, misconceptions about this and red flags 

Oct 28, 2025

28 min

Oct 23, 2025

28 min

Episode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating Arise

Oct 23, 2025

28 min

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